Sometimes Normal Is Just Not Enough
Some of u might think what kind of title is that to a blog after reading at first the tag that it bears…while someothers might say…”ya….what’s new in it!!!”.
But that’s what matter’s….ur perception…..ur outlook…towards things that u see….that u hear…that u feel. Well my suggestion will be to take it easy, verify the things first and then come to a conclusion. Everything is not the same as it seems…I knw its that old age statement
made by our elders often…but we never consider it…infact we never have that much time…it is only when we feel its impact,when these things come to our mind.. That was the case too with me when I thought of writing blogs…”what a rubbish idea…me writing blogs!!…I cannot write…I don’t need to write….what the hell I m thinking!!!”…but these words just vanished when I started writing my first blog..(dnt know whether it’s the last one either)…but as I said never take things granted before u actually analyze them…Ok…enough speeches…lets come to the point…
What do u think is normal in life….or should I say whats ur sense of a normal life????Start thinking….cross check every moments, incidents taking place in ur life and try to compare it with the “NORMAL”. U are done…evythings normal isn’t it!! A good job, a good GF/BF, nice relation with ur fellow beings..spending holidays with ur family…going on a date with someone…blah..blah…blah….!!! So u have a normal life…a nearly satisfied one….but still somewhere deep from the corner of ur heart, u’ll say.. still the spark, the excitement is missing……
Now the ones who have lots of complaints with life….”Why can’t everything just become normal as before??” type…u have been ditched by ur BF/GF….fired by the boss,lost interest in life, not married yet, isolated from ur peer group….etc…ur life is the most miserable one u think..right…and u r jealous of seeing someboby in a better situation than u are…..but wait a moment….do u consider all these to be abnormal….u think u don’t deserve all these…and u should have a “Normal” life….then I must tell u that u are really stupid and don’t even know urself fully….dnt knw what do u want….even if u are blaming god for no reason……
But thats not what life is all about....its about how u accept it and live with it.....
Just imagine…..suddenly u get a call from ur boss that u have been promoted with three fold salary…..u broke up with ur lover and the next day…u find someone even better..who also admires u…..u were dying to talk to the girl u loved secretly since years and not even got a look since years…but suddenly she comes to u and asks u for a date…u find ur best school-time friend when u r travelling in train, who is sitting just next to u….u get a chance to have ur name imprinted on the land of moon/mars….u being the first one….aren’t these really exciting!!!!!!
Well these things are not Normal….they are somewhat unsusual in some manner or the other…depending on the taste u have….but still all of u will love to experience those feelings…
And that’s what contradicts the definition of a perfect normal life…..that u had earlier….the sense changing frequently after some or other incident taking place in ur life at every moment….Its not just the normal life that gives us mental satisfaction and joy of leaving….its the beauty of those unusual amusements that we feel at different stages of life….we are in the heaven right at the next moment we decided to go to hell…..we feel lifted high with joy just after the long period of hardships and depression that tormented our soul apart….u love to cry with a smile on ur face…every one of us needs some kind of unusualness in our life…something that is not normal…something that shifts our mood ,some kind of adventure that gives us immense pleasure and excitement….like a tiny sparkle of light in an evenly lit room which we follow unreasonably….because “NORMAL IS NOT JUST ENOUGH SOMETIMES!!!!”
